Natural... without trying
Be it a love affair, marriage, friendship or family.
I know this.. I have 4 daughters. One I am very close to, "Naturally" we have the kind of relationship that we don't work on. We have great days, normal days and yes even bad days. (those we work on). We shop together and pick up where the other leaves off, cleaning is a natural balance (we live together). An yes we laugh hysterically, and tell the deepest secrets.
Then there's the other daughter very close to that one in age.. I love her because she's my daughter... but that Real Relationship was never Really there. Please bear in mind that they are both adults, I use them as examples because I'm referencing adult relationships.
I've met men that I felt like I had to be a certain way around them ... then I met someone I was completely comfortable with and forgot to think about anything.. I was just Natural ... completely comfortable and open in thought and actions with that person.
That's when you have become Relationship Real.
You shouldn't have to Work On Relationships in your life. There are already enough life issues for you and anyone in your life to have to try to be anything other then 100% REAL.
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